Many people find it difficult to open about certain topics (we are asked to keep our mouth shut for many things). So, now, here I am going to tell you about my experience of Ejaculation and how I tried coming out of the same. Hope to be a motivator for many people (like me) who are going through this.
And also please don’t think that you are the only one going through this, there are many like us, in need of help and support, so let’s get together and help others, as well .
Losing my virginity and confidence
I don’t think that every guy develops pre mature ejaculation because of same reasons (rushed masturbation, in my case), but I used to do it so hurriedly, in the fear that no one catches me
How and what happened?
I also feel that I was not so lucky, when I lost my virginity. According to my friends, I started quite late (was 19 when this happened).I met a common friend in a pub, after the usual petting, we went to my home, in the wee hours of morning, to continue, where we left (doing love making and stuff). We didn’t even go the extreme part of doing s**, as we both were so passionate from dancing, foreplay, flirting and stuff, didn’t end up going to the s** making part.
I was unaware of any such thing happening in the bodily process, but later on realized that it had been good. But, by the time we got onto the second time, it was no luck at all. It kept hitting me about what was I doing.
Better not to say anything.
After some days I came to know the root cause of my problem, whenever I went for a day or longer not doing s**, I couldn’t last even more than one minute.
Having s** several times a day, would make me better, but not lasting more than 5 minutes (maximum). That also depended upon her, most of the times, if she wanted to wait, four times (again maximum).
At that point of time, even I was unaware of the fact that s** is not just about penetration and orgasm, but much more than that, after a while we didn’t do it as much, but the best part remained that we never started the topic, also.
What excuses were made?
Post separating with my ex (for some other reason), one day I confessed to myself that I was suffering. Being a bit embarrassed, I spoke to myself that day that I couldn’t talk to others because of the awkwardness’